Hello From a New State

It's been a long time since I've posted here on my yoga blog (but my crafty blog: thecraftyyogi.blogspot.com has had somewhat regular posts!) and this post does not have a ton to do with yoga, but I hope that you'll read on.

Transition and change are the theme today (okay, and just letting you know what I've been up to). Back in October of 2013, my husband started a new job at a start up company.  Super exciting for him, but the office location was two hours and ten minutes from our house.  The good thing is that, being a computer guy, he could work most days from home.  The general plan was, if things were going well, we would move from Virginia (where we have lived in the same area for 20 years) to be nearer to said job located in Maryland.

Fast forward and, the house was readied for sale, sold, we put a contract on a house to be built, we found a place to rent in the neighborhood we're moving to, and packing commenced.

I said good bye to my yoga students, many that I had been teaching for 5-10 years!!

Lunch with my Trinity students.

A good- bye celebration with some of my elements students.

Wow! It was super hard to say good-bye, but you know, change is good.

In the midst of these good-byes and last classes and packing, our middle child, Cameron graduated from High School.  He'll be going to Florida (which seems very far from Maryland) for college.  It has been lots of work navigating the school web site and all the information to get him registered properly!

Moving was super hard. Clearing out a house of 14 years where three children grew up was a lot of work.  I definitely practiced some non attachment (a good yoga practice) and physically for all of us we were worn out.  Remember your yoga back stretches!  A little bit of yoga can go a long way.

Trip #1, ready to unload.

It took 4 days to move everything(we went with the 14 foot U-Haul truck) and clean out the house! With a crew of just us five, my Dad, my husband, and our two teenage sons and me, it was tough!  We'll be moving again in 6 months--but we've all convinced my husband that we should pay some movers!  Things were pretty tough the first week as some construction was being done on the rental and we couldn't put things into the basement rec room.  But that has mostly been worked out.  There are still lots of boxes as this is temporary and I don't want to un pack/repack everything!

This is our dog Lissa, hanging out with all the boxes!

This is my craft area, that is all set up for use.  Besides yoga, being crafty helps relax me!

Just a few weeks into the whole settling in part of moving we went on vacation to the Outer Banks in North Carolina.  Even though we are not as settled as I would like, the vacation was a very good thing!  My Dad went with us (my Mom was out of town, we sure wished she could have come with us).  It was his first visit to the Outer Banks, so we made sure to do most of the major tourist things.

The vacation was great!  I like to go for walks and do some yoga on the beach in the morning AND that's what I did!  There's not a lot that is better than that!

I've just started putting out my info and looking for places to teach yoga, so we'll see where that goes.  I took a yoga class at a studio in downtown Frederick and that felt wonderful.

So the sum up of this rambling post is that change is good--exciting, worrisome, stressful, and it will be alright!

Life, Explained By Down Dog

Have you ever thought about how life is like Downward Facing Dog Pose?  I have, so I thought I'd share my rambling ideas on the subject.  Please share in the comments your agreements and other thoughts.

Sometimes in life we feel stiff and stuck, that maybe we won't be able to do all that needs done that day, that's like the first down dog of the day. You come into the pose and it's like "hello shoulders, hello hamstrings." You take a deep breath and let it out slowly, you got this.  You can put the chili ingredients in the crock pot, a load of laundry in the washer, go to the bank, work, and be ready to volunteer all afternoon at the school.

Sometimes in life we'd rather stay in child's pose, all snuggled down and softly resting.  Curled up on the couch with a good book or a great movie we could wile away the afternoon.  But soon we must rise up and find our strength to clean the room or do the dishes, maybe mow the lawn, or answer some emails.  We stretch our arms forward, we spread the fingers wide, the toes tuck under in anticipation and we breathe, the body rising, with hands and feet rooting gently into the earth, the arms and legs pressing equally up and downward facing dog takes shape.

Sometimes in yoga downward dog is hard.  Maybe it's the beginning of a journey for us, finding strength where maybe there was none before.  Testing new muscles, learning new things.  A new job, a new friend, a new stage in life for our child, ourselves, our parent.  Maybe we might fall or we might do it "wrong." But you know what, we do it.

Sometimes in yoga downward dog is joy.  It's steady strength, the comfort of the familiar routine, of getting things done in the best way we can that day. It's feeling equal, balanced, even if just for a moment.  It's feeling inside all the love we can for ourselves and all the others in the world around us.  It's the knowing of a job well done.  It's the finding a place of ease within a place of work and feeling that joy.

5 times you really need yoga, and the number one pose for each situation

There are a ka-billion times that a person needs some yoga, but I thought I'd start with 5 common ones and the pose needed to make it all better.

1. The car ride.  Whether it's a long drive, a commute to work, or a bunch of short to medium drives shuttling kids to and from, many of us spend lots of time in the car.  So at the next stop, get out.  You need pyramid pose.  Close the door and stand next to the car.
Step one foot back a moderate amount, feet hip distance apart is fine.
Back heel down, and toes turned in slightly.
Press the back hip forward, front hip back, hands on hips.
Inhale your spine tall and keeping both legs mostly straight, hinge out over the front leg.
Go slow and don't worry about going far. Enjoy the stretch to the back of the front leg.
Breathe 5 long deep breaths (or count to 20).
Come up, step the back foot forward and do it all again.  Then back in the car you go.

pyramid pose

2. Before getting out of bed. Anyone out there have a bit of occasional back pain? This is a pretty easy cure to feeling pretty good as you start your day.  So you're awake, turn off the alarm and stay under the covers.  If your hot, push them off first.  Start your day with knee to chest pose.
Laying on your back, pull one of your knees in towards your chest.
Hold onto the knee or behind the thigh, whichever feels best.
Breathe thoes 5 long deep breaths or count to 20.
Gently release the leg and stretch the leg back out.
Pull the other knee in, breathe again.
If you've got the time, then pull both knees in at the same time.
After the 5 breaths, roll gently to your side, sit up and get out of bed. Let the day begin.

knee to chest pose

3. Stressed out. It happens to the best of us. Too much, too little of life.  But carry on we must. We need to breathe.
Sit or stand up tall.
Roll your shoulders back and down.
Inhale through your nose (mouth is ok if the nose isn't working properly).
Think the words as you do the action ("I inhale").
Exhale through the nose slowly.
Think the words as you do the action ("I exhale" if you need extra good mojo, think "I exhale, I smile").
Go with that magic number of 5 breaths if you can, but one really careful breath can be pretty helpful/healthful all by it's self. Carry on.

breathing pose

4. You ate too much. What ever the reason, it doesn't matter.  We won't go into the details, let's just get ourselves settled down. A gentle head tilt is needed.
Sit or stand up tall.
Roll the shoulders back and down (sounds like the beginning of number three, yes? It's really a great way to start almost every pose).
Gently lean your right ear towards your right shoulder.
Maybe close your eyes.
Breathe, 3-5 breaths should do it.
Gently bring the head back to center.
Do the same on the second side. Step away from the food, it will be alright.

head tilt pose

5. Too much sitting at the desk/table--usually computer related. A standing forward fold is just the pose for this situation.
Stand up.
Face the desk or chair.
Put your hands evenly upon it.
Keeping your hands there, walk your body away from it.
You'll start to hinge at the hips.
Only go as far as you can keep your back pretty straight.
Head between the upper arms.
Legs mostly straight.
Breathe the 5 long deep breaths.
Walk yourself back up to standing. If you must, sit back down and get to work, repeat every hour or so.

standing forward fold

So there it is, 5 times we really need yoga and the number one pose to make us feel good. Hope this helps. Let me know what worked/works for you.  The ordinary yogi closing down and getting ready to do number 5.


 

It's OK to challenge yourself

Last week I wrote about going easy in your yoga practice so it's perfectly fitting that this week I write about going hard.  Again, both ends of the spectrum are either nodding "yes" or "no".  And you know I  am saying that we need a bit of both in our lives.  The yin and the yang.

If we are drawn to a softer practice, sometimes we need to step on our mat and get a bit sweaty.  We need to hear our breath in a different way.  We need to lose focus for a bit on the "I can'ts" the "I don't want tos" and the "it's to hards". Then we focus and breathe and do what we can, the best that we can that day.  Without causing harm we find our line--the line between too hard and too easy, and we hold it.  We sink into our pose and we expand out of it with joy and the happy energy of a challenge well met.

Wow! I'm sitting here in this Starbucks (they have wifi and most importantly power as my lap top no longer has a battery and it's a great time to write) waiting while my son's at marching band practice and  after writing thoes last two lines above--I even just now re-read them and I want to get off this stool and enjoy the most awesome triangle pose ever!

So here I am enjoying triangle pose some where a little more awesome than Starbucks

Alright back in focus. Put some challenge in your yoga, maybe hold your poses a bit longer or practice some sun salutations.  Try some yoga at a different place or with a different teacher (of course come back to your favorite teacher--me) mix it up.  A well rounded practice should have a little bit of everything.

If you are that lover of "hard" yoga, don't forget to go soft sometimes.  Read my last blog, It's OK to go easy.  Remember any questions or comments, I'm here to help.  Enjoy this bit of a yang practice, my take on Paul Grilley's, warriors advances and retreats.  Find your inner warrior and enjoy. (Ordinary yogis can be warriors).

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It's OK to go easy.

Did you know that OK is the most recognized word in the world? Coke is the number 2, but that's a blog for a different day.  So, it is OK to do "easy" yoga.  It's OK for your yoga to not be super sweaty or feel really hard, and you know what you can still be practicing great yoga.  Many already yoga fans and yoga teachers are nodding their heads "yes" right now just as many (especially yoga avoiders) are shaking their heads "no."

So no matter your stance, just sit back for a moment and read on.  Our yoga can be gentle and accomplish many things.  If you are a go hard or go home exerciser, yoga of the gentle variety might be just what you need.  It might take you out of your comfort zone and challenge you in a different way.  This type of yoga could very well be the key to making all of your other exercise stronger, better, and more fun.  A body that works hard needs rest to heal and strengthen.  And there are not many of us out there saying "I'm flexible enough."

A gentle yoga class or practice can give our bodies permission to rest and move gently.  We can work on range of motion and bringing fluidity to our joints.  We can rest and listen in to what our bodies are really saying.  Pretty much most of us want our backs to feel better and for the tension to leave our necks and shoulders.  Gentle careful mindful movements can get things going in the feel good direction.  A gentle practice can keep us going so that we can go hard again another day.

If we are a person dealing with injuries, lack of current exercise, or other ailments, some gentle yoga can get us started on the road to recovery or just to feeling better in our bodies.

If we have no limitations and we are mostly drawn to gentler yoga, that's not such a terrible thing either.  But we may need to on occasion challenge ourselves to move more, and that will be the topic of a future blog post.  Think yin and yang, two halves that make a complete whole.  We want to be as complete of a person as we can and both types of yoga can help us.

The following video is from a few years ago, but it's some gentle, easy feel good yoga.  The video also stars Lissa the dog and the sweetest (some what large) cat named Lloyd who died a few months ago, and boy does my home practice yoga miss him.  So lay on down to practice and remember that it's OK to go easy.  I'm Audra, the ordinary yoga, practicing easy with you.

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Just Breathe

Breath. Essential life force. Always present, sometime ignored. Our yoga can be our breath.
What if we just pay attention?

Stop for a moment, sit up tall wherever you might be.  Roll your shoulders up towards your ears and set them gently down and back.  Soften your eyes, and breathe (in and out through the nose if you can, if not gently in and out through the mouth).  Inhale think "peace" and exhale think "just let go".  Inhale peace and exhale just let go.  Inhale peace and exhale just let go.

Don't you feel wonderful?  When stress or life starts to get the better of you, just pause and breathe.

Here is a meditative flow which might be fun to do.  Let me know how you like it.

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your pose is your pose

OK, so we all look different in our yoga poses. And that's OK. Really. I'm serious, don't worry about what you look like in your pose. How do you feel? Is it a good stretch, is it good work? Does it feel tight, blocked, sticky? These are the questions we should be asking ourselves. Explore.

I'm not saying that your pose should not change. And I do think alignment is very important, we need to practice our poses safely. Let's protect our knees, ankles, hips, and shoulders. We want to continue to practice another day so we should practice safely today. Find a good teacher for you, someone who gives you the basics of the poses so you can get into and out of them safely, but then let's you be. Allow yourself to feel wonderful in your yoga pose, to feel the work and change happening in your body. When you settle into the pose, embrace it. Practice your yoga for you, for the body you are in today. It is called a yoga practice, not a yoga perfect, or a yoga just like the person next to me.

Let's work towards the safest strongest pose for our body that day. As we gain experience with the poses and knowledge of how our individual bodies need to move we can begin to refine our poses.

Let the refinement of the pose come from within. Think energetically, pull in the belly and allow or encourage the energy to spiral out. The energy can lengthen the spine and strengthen the legs and arms and maybe make the pose more comfortable. When you find the place of comfort within the strength of your pose, your pose is your pose! Enjoy it, enjoy being you.

The video today is my interpretation of Paul Grilley's yang sequence The Flying Dragons. It's a somewhat challenging vinyasa, but that's OK. Watch the first round once, you'll be intrigued. Get out your mat, start back at the beginning and enjoy. You can do it, make it yours. I'm Audra, the ordinary yogi enjoying my poses.

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